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Nicki Minaj Opens Up On Past Abusive Relationship – Offers Advice To Women

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5 years ago

September 2, 2019

Peter Dredd

“I Could Maybe Say One Wrong Thing That Would Get Me Hit”

Nicki Minaj has been undeniably happy since she found love with her new man Kenneth Petty and the two lovers have been sharing series of boo’d up photos on social media for a while now.

Nicki Minaj took to twitter to express her feelings towards abusive relationships. She revealed she experienced it first hand and offers advice to ladies on it.

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Nicki had earlier detailed her childhood in the trailer for her Queen documentary, reliving memories of the abuse her mother suffered at the hands of her father, explaining ho that led to her own tolerance of such behavior.

“I remember when my mother would let my father be violent with her. And she always brings up this story, as a little girl I would stand in front of my mother and go like this,” she said showing her arms in defense. “And then all of a sudden, that was my life.”

Minaj advise people to pay attention to their loved ones who seems to be in a toxic relationship and give them word of encouragement in knowing their worth and knowing when to leave rather than mock them.

“When u see a woman in a toxic relationship, rather than laugh & say mean things, try to offer sound advice from your heart & root for her to learn her worth. We’ve all been there. I saw my parents fight & argue non stop & never divorce, so I thought this was normal behavior…”

When u see a woman in a toxic relationship, rather than laugh & say mean things, try to offer sound advice from your heart & root for her to learn her worth. We’ve all been there. I saw my parents fight & argue non stop & never divorce, so I thought this was normal behavior…

— Mrs. Petty (@NICKIMINAJ) September 1, 2019

Nicki gave a detailed explanation on signs of a toxic relationship woman should always notice.

“Dear all of you beautiful souls.

A man who loves you does not:

1. Humiliate you on social media

2. Beat you

3. Cheat on you

4. Call you out of your name/put you down to lower your self esteem due to his own insecurities.

5. Hide his phone, passwords, where abouts, etc.”

Dear all of you beautiful souls.

A man who loves you does not:

1. Humiliate you on social media
2. Beat you
3. Cheat on you
4. Call you out of your name/put you down to lower your self esteem due to his own insecurities.
5. Hide his phone, passwords, where abouts, etc.

— Mrs. Petty (@NICKIMINAJ) September 1, 2019

She revealed that she used to think that relationship / love had to hurt and how people go on social media to post photos of relationship goals for clout while they’re been abused in close doors.

“I rlly used to think love had to hurt. So I could never look down on anyone else. We are merely human. It’s not easy to leave. Especially in the world of IG where all ppl want to do is post relationship goal pics for clout & attention. A man should make you feel safe, not afraid”

I rlly used to think love had to hurt. So I could never look down on anyone else. We are merely human. It’s not easy to leave. Especially in the world of IG where all ppl want to do is post relationship goal pics for clout & attention. A man should make you feel safe, not afraid

— Mrs. Petty (@NICKIMINAJ) September 1, 2019

The Queen also opens up on her past abusive relationship and how scared she used to be when dealing with her man who might not be in good mood. Thus, a wrong thing would get her hit. She didn’t reveal who he was.. Don’t crack your head just digest the message.

“I remember being so afraid to speak cuz I never knew when that person would be in a particular mood and I could maybe say one wrong thing that would get me hit. So the diff you see in me now is that feeling when a woman feels lifted up, safe, appreciated & unconditionally loved.”

I remember being so afraid to speak cuz I never knew when that person would be in a particular mood and I could maybe say one wrong thing that would get me hit. So the diff you see in me now is that feeling when a woman feels lifted up, safe, appreciated & unconditionally loved.

— Mrs. Petty (@NICKIMINAJ) September 1, 2019

Then, she talked about learning to love herself which is a major factor in self actualization.

“But I first had to learn how to love MYSELF. 🙏🏾 if you wouldn’t let a man treat your mother, your sister or best friend like that b/c you LOVE them, then you wouldn’t let a man treat YOU like that b/c you love YOU.”

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“This isn’t about judging. We judge too much. Lift them up. 🙏🏾”

But I first had to learn how to love MYSELF. 🙏🏾 if you wouldn’t let a man treat your mother, your sister or best friend like that b/c you LOVE them, then you wouldn’t let a man treat YOU like that b/c you love YOU. This isn’t about judging. We judge too much. Lift them up. 🙏🏾

— Mrs. Petty (@NICKIMINAJ) September 1, 2019

Read and digest.. *Drops pen*